Questions:

When a Catalyst Card does not state which player is to do an action, which player does the action? 

Answer:  Both players do the action.

Example: Do the Chakra-Chakra…while making the sounds of:  A happy animal.
Both players make happy animal sounds

The Wow, Shit & Halftime Tokens…how & when do you use them?

Answer:  These tokens can be presented at any time during the game…as many times as you wish…or not at all. After being presented they are placed back in a handy place ready to be used again. They are options to represent & express what you feel or need.

Example 1:  You felt eye gazing with your lover was an extraordinary experience. You may choose to give them the Wow Token to symbolize what you are feeling.

Example 2:  You connected deeply with your lover…but then, a little while later, you start feeling like you can’t connect very well anymore, or you start feeling tension in your body, or in your voice…or you find yourself reacting rather than responding in the moment. You may choose to present the Halftime Token so you can take a break to give yourself some time to get present & reclaim your ability to relate. You may need to be with feelings & stories coming up from your past so you can integrate them into wisdom. Processing old feelings can return you to the joy of relationship. Or, you may need time to just get a sense of what you need & how to communicate that without being rude.

Example 3: If you or your partner does something without thought for the other’s feelings or physical comfort or safety, or if you did not feel honored by a response or a look. Get out the Shit Token, and present it.